Why girls always choose the wrong guy in her life? May be to makes her respect the right one, when she finally found him? But if that’s the answer, how about the girls who died young because of broken hearted by her first love? Not suicide just died. Because if she died in that way, you might said, “oh, honey, you even don’t give yourself chance to life. How can you hope that much in life? ”. May be she died because she’s sick before they broke up, and it’s just getting worst when it happens. Or she had a traffic accident because she’s too sad and didn’t mention the traffic lamp that much. Ok, you might say that I am such a drama queen, but it can be happen, right? Besides I am still a girl, and as you know, every girl in this planet has a potential talent to be a drama queen.
Another thing, why love always be a big problem for girls? Men can easily fix their broken heart and go on with their life. Not all of them of course, but most of them does. And the ironic fact is, so many girls failed, really failed, when they broken hearted. Let’s blame the Cinderella story who makes so many girls thought that someday a prince will come and fulfill their dreams. And then practically everything will end up with the happy ending. Or the Princess Aurora folk’s story, where the princess falls asleep for a hundred years and then suddenly woke up by a kiss from the Prince. So simple (or fake?). Ha-ha, tell me about it!
Now you see me as a cynical pathetic person who got broken hearted so many times and then became the worst enemy of love, for hoping that I can finally found my right man whom I can spend the rest of my life with. That’s true if you want to see trough such perspective. And also true (not trying to be defensive) that I’m just trying to see the reality and leave that entire fairy ‘fake’ things behind. Because the truth is, you have to open your heart first before you try to find the right one. But there’s something that you must remember, after you found him, everything’s not suddenly ended up with a happy ending. You must keep that relationship; pour them with the water of love and some warmth light of romance, which will take care of it perfectly like plants. Keeping a relationship is not about only sit and then you suddenly realize that “Oh my God, You weren’t the perfect one?”. One thing that you should give an underline is that you can have the perfect one. Because actually, it’s just about what you think about it, that’s what really matters. Or, maybe the definition of perfect is about time and needs. When the right time has come, he became the perfect person. Or when you need his figure, he is the perfect one. That’s why we called him the right man. At least, the ‘Right Now’ man (chuckles).
